Alarming and fascinating piece from the Stamford Advocate about pollution in Long Island Sound. Worth a read!
Author: Dan D.
In Memoriam: The Shippan Avenue Duchess
Does anyone out there remember the Duchess Restaurant that used to be on Shippan Avenue?
It was right next to what was the Sunny Daes ice cream shop (which may still be there, I haven’t been back to Stamford since last Christmas, and even then it wasn’t a very long visit) and was replaced by a series of banks. I recall that one of the banks was First County Bank, which Bobby Valentine used to shill for. “First County Bank…your first place for savings and more…”, went their TV ad. What was the “more” part all about? Were they offering to sell me a Big D burger?
A thirty-second Google search did not produce any results about this particular franchise. I forget the exact year it closed, but am fairly certain it was early on in my college days. I’d proffer that this must have been late 2005-early 2006 as my mom recommended I write a story about it for my journalism class at Providence College. Yes, this was important news, even if I was two and a half hours north in Rhode Island and the talk of the town at the time up there was the demolition of the old Jamestown Bridge.
For those of you reading this who haven’t the slightest clue what I’m writing about, Duchess Restaurants are a chain of fast food joints in Connecticut that serve decent food in roughly the same amount of time McDonald’s can dump a steaming pile of stomach fill in a bag for you. Their menu is surprisingly diverse (I remember ordering spaghetti on occasion) and their breads are baked locally. Apparently you can even order online now.
I have a lot of memories from Duchesses all over Fairfield County, but that Shippan Duchess occupies a special place in my heart – that is to say, I remember it fondly and all the hot dogs I enjoyed there over the years are sure to facilitate my upcoming cardiac arrest. It will be worth it; each one was phenomenal. That was the last restaurant I remember smoking a cigarette in with a couple of pals back in high school (not something I wish was still possible, but a memory of how smoking in restaurants used to be a thing), a place where my grandma and her friends would hang out and eat fish during Lent, the place where I ate dinner with my family on September 11 to get out of the house and decompress after a completely insane day. One particular memory from that night sticks with me to this day: a guy sitting by the windows that overlooked Shippan Avnenue, gazing vaguely in the direction of Shippan Point and by extension Manhattan, his expression gripped by a sadness I can symphathize with but never fully comprehend. Did he lose a loved one in the attack? Was he mourning the loss of all of the people who had died that day and feeling the full weight of the aftermath?
There were plenty of happy moments had in that restaurant too. There was the comic relief generated by my grandma yelling at the drive-thru speaker over me from the passengers’ seat that she wanted “LIGHTLY TOASTED RYE BREAD” for her fish sandwich; giving her friends rides there when they were no longer to drive themselves (and my grandma’s friend Helen trying to tip me for chauffering them, much to my grandma’s chagrin). That place had the best hash browns, and they were available all day, unlike the Exit 9 McDonald’s, which stopped serving them at 10 or 11, well before I used to wake up in those days. There was also soup. Where else can you find soup at a fast food restaurant? Panera, sure, if you want to pay $10 for a Dixie cup size serving.
The Shippan Duchess was also outfitted with a fine staff. I may not be recalling this entirely accurately, but I remember there being a middle-aged man with a super kind demeanor who I believe to have been the manager. My mom and grandma would talk to him, and we learned that he had hip surgery (I believe) and ended up having to close the place because of falling revenues (or maybe increased rent? would make sense considering what followed it at that location). The servers were always really nice and many recognized us and remembered little tidbits about our lives. That’s the hallmark of a great small business. A company that isn’t deliberately trying to learn about you to glean information so it can sell you more of its crap but humanizes you by treating you as part of the community. Even more to the point, I don’t suspect it was a calculated measure on their part – just folks being neighborly.
The Shippan Avenue Duchess was a place for friends to gather and enjoy lovingly prepared food. It was a great Stamford business. If you’ve got any memories of it, feel free to share them in the comments section.
Dan D. 9/4/2015
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If you were a fan of the Stamford Avocado, well, here it is. As of September 2015, the Avocado is now StamFart, a division of PlopCorn Media. All your favorite characters are still here (yes, even Dirk “Turp” Blarkington). Curtis Parvin’s film and pop culture analyses can now be found on the main PlopCorn page. Thanks for visiting and be sure to follow us on Twitter!
New York Mets Make Another Rotation Change
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Dan D. – June 12, 2015 |
Earlier today, Anthony DiComo, the Mets’ beat writer for MLB.com, announced that the team would be starting Dillon Gee on Sunday instead of Noah Syndergaard, thus seemingly returning to the six-man rotation the team was supposed to have abandoned a short time ago.
We at the Avocado are proud to be the first to announce, however, that Mets manager Terry Collins has announced yet another change to his pitching rotation: all 25 men on the major league roster will cycle in and out of starting pitching duties.
“Considering all the injuries to the team lately, we decided that this would be our best option moving forward”, said Bjork J. Schlorp, Terry Collins’ personal assistant. When pressed as to why Collins thought this would be a good idea, Schlorp kept schtum, eventually evading the question by revealing that the team’s skipper has a strict predilection for 2-ply toilet paper.
The Avocado decided to concede that it would never receive a substantial answer to its original question, so we instead decided to ask Bjork why this was. “Well”, Schlorp sighed, “you see, during his contract negotiations, Terry held a hard line about Citi Field’s home clubhouse being fully stocked with three-ply Cottonelle ‘Tender Cheeks’ rolls, infused liberally with aloe vera. He insisted that he and his players receive the finest care possible, considering that 162 times a year they work their butts off to field a great team”.
“Well, the Wilpons, being the cheapskates that they are, told Terry he could ‘take his buttwipes and stuff them in his Pujols’ and told him that they wouldn’t supply anything but 1-ply RuffStuff brand, which, interestingly, is a company Jeff Wilpon has majority stakeholdings in. Terry threatened to walk, at which point the Wilpons realized that if he did, their only option to replace him would be Carl Everett, who currently manages their sub-rookie farm team, the Lake Minnetonka Purifiers. So, they agreed to compromise on two-ply”.
Stunned by this revelation, I thanked Bjork for his time, and went home to type this story out on my Commodore 64. There was no possible way this could have been made up – ‘Cottonelle Tender Cheeks’? It’s just too specific!
Sports Op-Ed: Gee And Niese Gotta Go
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By reddit.com/u/metsuup June 5, 2015 |
EXPERT MLB GAME RECAP: Cardinals 10, Mets 2
May 19, 2015 – Granny D wrote this.
What a hard game to watch. I mean, for me, it was especially confusing, because Danny left my glasses and hearing aid upstairs, so it was a real struggle to figure out what was going on! Here are my biggest takeaways from this match:
– Man, Jon’s niece was terrible tonight, but did she really deserve getting hit eleven times? It’s not nice to hit little girls!
– Is that the Walker Flocker Flame guy the kids are all talking about who pitched for the Cardinals? Hold on, when did Stan Musial stop playing for them??!
– I remember Pete Kozma! I worked with him over at the Yale & Towne Lock Company back in ’39. He must be in great shape to still be playing baseball at his age!
– My grandson isn’t named Curtis! It’s Dan! I think he has a friend named Curtis, though, or maybe it’s Nick. I don’t know, I can’t keep up with all two of them!
– Randal Grichuk? I think I know his mother. She used to come to Sunday service at Holy Name. Nice woman. You know, one time, Fr. Mozieowicziczinski was blessing her Easter egg basket, and her leg just fell off! Well, they had a family history of the C.A. and she had been sick with the smallpox for some time. Wouldn’t you know it, they fixed her up and two weeks later she got Ebola! Kids these days.
"Mad Men" Finale Sparks Heated Debate, Analysis
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May 18, 2014 – Dan D. wrote this. |
Seven seasons after it burst on to television screens with its engaging characters, imaginatively created sets, and multi-layered symbolism that set fire to a thousand passionate debates among its fans, AMC’s Mad Men aired its last episode Sunday night, tying together many previously disparate threads while leaving a few key yarns unspun.
A day later, fans around the world remained split in their opinion of the finale.
“I was watching MM last night with my Chihuachow and what was up with that final scene? I need closure!!!!” viewer Amy Sandadeckio (@licecreamsandwich) of Chillicothe, OH tweeted to her three followers this morning.
Rob Rockburg (@zenyachtamondatta) of West Greenwich, RI felt differently.
“Brilliant, the way they ended it there. I will never watch another finale again. #IdLikeToBuyTheWorldACoke”
The scene Sandadeckio and Rockburg can’t seem to agree on proceeds as follows: protagonist Dan Shader is told by his doctor, Abe Quackula, that his blood pressure has reached catastrophic heights after engaging in another record-setting shouting match with his brother, Paul, over who would make a better fantasy baseball pick for a left-handed specialist relief pitcher: Alex Torres of the New York Mets or Chasen Shreve of the New York Yankees. The good doctor sends Shader to a mandatory transcendental meditation seminar in Los Pequeno Jerbo, CA, where Shader has a revelation: he’ll instead dupe his brother into trading for Phil Coke of the Chicago Cubs by singing their favorite television jingle together, “I’d Like To Buy the World A Coke“.
The scene was a fittingly weird end to a show that’s chronicled a family’s trials and tribulations with their collective temper. Creator Michael Dingus expressed relief to Variety magazine about the show’s conclusion: “It gets really exhausting having to write scenes with people who are extremely irate that often with each other”, he admitted. “I was very close to bursting a major blood vessel or two throughout the show’s run”.
It’s unclear what the Anger Management Channel will do in the show’s absence, though it’s rumored that Breaking Bile, a documentary about people who have had their gallbladders removed, will be shifted into its time-slot.
Op-Ed: Five Oscar Tidbits of 2015
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February 25, 2015 — By: Curtis M. Parvin/my IMDB page |
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Thanks to Joe Seer on Shutterstock for the image! |
1. Lack of Oscar nominations for Nightcrawler (2014) and Inherent Vice (2014)
Welcome My Son, To the Machine: “Boogie Nights” (1997) as Critique of the Modern Hollywood System
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February 21, 2015 |
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Paul Thomas Anderson is a 1990’s savior of cinema! Let the Christians await the arrival of Jesus Christ; film fans have actually seen the second coming of Orson Welles.
The awful truth is that most people today are lining up around the block to see Michael Bay’s recycling center filmmaking. These movie theater Tweeters want loud noises, mangled robots or women bending over muscle cars. Or, they yearn to see on-screen adaptations of trashy books shooting up the bestseller list — I will never understand the 50 Shades of Grey craze. Fast action, quick cuts, and sex seems to be the formula for success in mainstream cinema.
Watching "Deliverance" (1972) with Henry David Thoreau
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February 10, 2015 |
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